Juroon - May 25, 2002 at 12:00pm
A day or so before
the wedding, various rituals are performed on both the bride and the groom in
their own homes. One of these rituals, is the juroon ceremony. This is an Assamese
ceremony that takes place in the bride's home. Several women from the groom's
family arrive at the bride's home and the mother of the bride greets the mother
of the groom. The bride's mother leads the groom's mother to the morol,
which is a decorated small mandap made of banana or mango leaves. The bride
is brought in and sits in front of a morol while the groom's mother as
well as other women from the groom's family present the bride with gifts. The
groom's mother also puts sindoor on the bride's forehead during this
time.
After the Juroon,
the women from the bride's family will leave for a nearby lake for the pani
tula. The bride's mother will bring back some water from the lake which
will be used for the ga dhua or haldi ceremony. Though the bride's
mother is the only one who will be collecting the water in a vessel, she is
accompanied by other women who are singing songs. The bride doesn't attend
this
ceremony and instead waits for the women to return back to her home for the
next ceremony.
The haldi
ceremony takes place next at the bride's home. The bride will be seated on a
pira, or small stool, while her
body is anointed with turmeric, sandalwood paste and oils. Their purpose is
to cleanse the body, soften the skin, and make it aromatic. The water that was
collected during the pani tula is also used. All the women from the bride's
family as well as her female friends take part in this ceremony. The
women also throw rice on the bride as a sign of prosperity.
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